You've been dreaming of getting married outdoors since the first time you took in the magnificent scent of fresh-cut flowers.

Q. What can you tell me about St. Martin? My wife wants to go there for our wedding anniversary because, she claims, it has the best food in the Caribbean. What's to do there besides eat? I'm not a lie-on-the-beach person. - R.A., Boynton Beach, Fla.

Pool parties can be fun, even for nonswimmers, who can watch the action from poolside. Pull up a lounge chair and grab a cold drink. If you don't have a pool in your back yard, there may be one for rent in your town.